Fruits of the Spirit: LESSON 4 PART 2 – Kindness (1 John 3:18)

Fruits of the Spirit: LESSON 4 PART 2 – Kindness (1 John 3:18)

LESSON: KINDNESS is love in action.

Memory Verse:  “Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.”–  1 John 3:18

Bible Lesson:  Kindness in the Book of Ruth (Lesson is from

Chapter 1:  The Kindness of Ruth and Naomi

Once upon a time, there was a woman named Naomi.  Naomi was married to Elimelech (say that three times fast!) and they had two sons, Mahlon and Kilion.  They lived in Bethlehem.  (Who else was born there?)  But they had to move because of a famine (no food in the land.)  So they packed their bags and went to live in a foreign land called Moab.

A few years after the move, Elimelech died.  Naomi was so sad, but she had to keep living life.  Her two sons got married to Ruth and Orpah (not Oprah.)  For ten years, things seemed good, until both her sons died.  Her life seemed to have one funeral after another.  Now she was all alone in a foreign land.

Since her daughters in law were so young, she told them to go back to their homes.  “Go back, each of you, to your mother’s home.  May the Lord show kindness to you, as you have shown to your dead and to me.” (Ruth 1:8)  So she waved goodbye to them and everyone cried.  Orpah went away, but Ruth hugged Naomi and said, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you.  Where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay.  Your people will be my people and your God my God.” (Ruth 1:16)

Ruth showed kindness to Naomi by staying with her, maybe because Naomi first showed kindness to her.  So together, they packed their bags and took the long and dusty journey to Bethlehem, Naomi’s first home.  No one could believe that Naomi was back!  Everyone said, “Is this really her, Naomi?” Naomi said, “Don’t call me Naomi, call me Mara.” Naomi felt like God had made her life bitter.  Almost everything had been taken away from her.

Chapter 2:  The Kindness of Boaz

Naomi had this one relative, on Elimelech’s side of the family, whose name was Boaz.  Boaz was very wealthy and had large fields.  Now it was the custom of the day that after the harvesters went through the field, poor people were allowed to take whatever was left.  Ruth was one of those poor people who gathered grain one day.  When Boaz asked who she was, his foreman told him.

Boaz had heard of the kindness of Ruth towards Naomi, so he said to her, “Don’t go and glean in another field and don’t go away from here… Stay here with my servant girls…I’ve been told all about what you have done for your mother-in-law…May the Lord repay you for what you have done.  May you be richly rewarded by the Lord….” (Ruth 2:8, 11-12)

Not only did Boaz speak kindly to Ruth, but he also invited her for lunch!  Boaz even gave orders to his men to leave extra grain for her, which they did.  That night, when she came home to Naomi, she had leftovers from lunch and nearly a bushel of grain!  That was a lot!  Ruth was so surprised at his kindness.  Naomi was too!  She said, “May the Lord bless him!  He has not stopped showing kindness to the living and the dead!”  (Ruth 2:20)

The Rest of the Story:  The Kindness of God

The story of Ruth, which starts out with a lot of death and sadness, ends up with a whole lot of joy.  Boaz ends up asking Ruth to marry him.  They become husband and wife and have a son named Obed.  Years later, Obed becomes the grandfather of King David.  And the great-great-great-great…. grandfather of Jesus.  In fact, Matthew Chapter 1 talks about the family tree of Jesus.  And in that family tree, in verse 5, are the names of both Boaz and Ruth.  They are listed in the family tree of the Savior of the world!

How did our story turn out to have a happy ending?  God wrote a beautiful story for Ruth and Boaz, but their lives were not always easy.  How was life hard for Ruth?  How did she respond to her hard life?  Was she angry and mean about everything or was she kind and grateful?  Ruth lived a life of kindness, even when she probably didn’t feel like it.  Remember that her husband died, she was poor, and she was living in a foreign land (Bethlehem.)  But she chose to be kind, despite her circumstances.  Even before Boaz met her, he knew who she was because people had been talking about her kindness!  Wow!

In our story today, Naomi showed kindness to Ruth.  Ruth showed kindness to Naomi and Boaz.  Boaz showed kindness to Ruth and his workers.  This is a story of kindness!  But even greater than the kindness showed by Naomi, Ruth, and Boaz is the kindness showed by God!   God has chosen to show us kindness through the sacrifice of His Son, Jesus.  None of us deserve God’s kindness because of our sin, but He shows it anyway.

In Titus 3:3-5, it says that, “At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived, and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures.  We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another.  But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but  because of his mercy…”

Application and Prayer:

(Thank the students for their good listening in our story today.  Mention that they no longer have to put their fingers on their noses!  Have the students close their eyes.)  Think for a moment about your sin.  How have you hurt the heart of God today?  This week?  This year?  Now think about God.  God sent His only son to die on the cross, in your place – for your sin.  Because of the death of Jesus, we can be forgiven for our sin.  We can live with Jesus forever in Heaven.  And we can be kind to others because God has been kind to us.

In Romans 2:4, it says that, “God’s kindness leads you toward repentance.”Repentance means being forgiven of your sin.  This is not a question to answer out loud, but have you ever asked for forgiveness for your sin?  Have you invited Jesus into your heart?  If not, I want to invite you to do that today.

For those of you who have invited Christ into your heart, are you living out kindness every day?  Are you kind to your parents, your brothers or sisters, your friends?  Are you kind only when things are going well for you?  Or are you like Ruth and are kind no matter what?  I want to invite you to have Jesus help you be kind to others all of the time.

October 14 2013 1 John 3 18 coloring page


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